[OOC] Kink List

[afterthemoment]

Yes

- Lan Wangji is always welcome
- AU for all other ships, including castmates, cross-canon, and female partners
- Married life, domestic smut
- Romance
- Dating
- Flirting
- Humor
- BDSM
- Clothed sex
- Temperature play
- Sensory deprivation
- Rough sex, including biting and hair-pulling
- Anal sex, giving or receiving
- Vaginal sex, giving
- Oral sex, giving or receiving
- Hand jobs, fingering, and mutual masturbation
- Marking with semen
- Aftercare and pillowtalk
- Alcohol leading to sex
- Outdoor sex and exhibitionism
- First time explorations
- Sex toys, including improvised ones
- Realism

Maybe

- Dubcon and consensual nonconsensual roleplay (only with OOC discussion first to establish clear limits and comfort levels; I won't play out this kink unless there's an open line of communication with the other player)
- Rimming, giving or receiving
- Multiple rounds

No

- Adultery
- Nonconsensual sex (note: consensual roleplaying scenarios that are clearly based on the characters' IC fantasies are exempt from this)
- Underage partners
- Vore
- Bathroom kinks (scat, golden showers, etc)
- Death

If something's not listed here, please ask!